Identity answers the question, who I am and who I am not. An answer that is multi-faceted -both objective and subjective. Sometimes obvious and other times obscure. And to make it trickier, it shifts over time. In this episode of Breaking Bread, Ted Witzig Jr helps us understand the nature of identity formation and how we can better steward this area of our life.
Show notes:
Identity is:
Aspects that make up identity:
Events that unsettle identity:
Process for forming identity:
Troubles in forming identity:
Identity brings about:
The most important identity:
We don’t like it when things are out of reach. Especially when they are good things. But sometimes they just are. In this episode of Breaking Bread, Brian Sutter helps us understand what health looks like amid the disappointment of our inabilities.
Definition: Limitations are those things that we cannot do or achieve regardless of effort or resources.
Reality: Limitations are often sources of pain in a person’s life. We don’t like to be told “no” you can’t do that.
Healthy Mental Processing: Limitations are losses to be grieved.
Healthy Mindset: Do not identify yourself according to your limitation. Rather, understand your limitation to be part of your unique story and an aspect beloved by God the Father. Pivot your thinking away from limitations and on to opportunities.
Healthy Action: A lot of good is instore for you even with your limitation. Invest in those areas you can contribute and improve in.
Definition: Weaknesses are those things that we struggle to do well, but with effort and resources, can improve.
Reality: The ceiling of our abilities is most likely untried. We can make meaningful gains in many areas of our life.
Healthy Mental Processing: We need to discern the difference between limitations in our lives and weaknesses.
Healthy Mindset: God has given us the responsibility to steward our abilities. Continuing to grow and learn is part of the human flourishing He calls us into.
Healthy Action: Growth is a function of effort over time. Engage the growth process.